Buying our first home

It's traditional to get married, to buy your own home and then to start a family. We have done everything totally backwards. We had a baby, are about to buy our own home and marriage is last on the cards. It would of been nice to do things the traditional way but who does that these days? I don't know whether to feel sad about the lack of tradition or to be elated that we aren't trapped in the routine. 



I blogged all about my new years resolutions at the beginning of the month and on my list was to buy our own home. I mentioned that it was a bit of a long shot but hoped that we would at least have our deposit saved up before the end of the year. Little did I know that less than a month later we would be an inch away from that dream. Our money is saved up, we have our hearts set on a house. They have even accepted our offer.  

Earlier this month we viewed a few properties. Where we live there isn't really much to choose from. It's either have a decent house but in a rubbish location or a smaller house but in a nice location. Both for similar prices. It's been really hard as it is such an overwhelming decision. If you rent you can up and leave but when you buy you are stuck. 

We viewed a few houses and only one really struck a cord with us. It felt right. It's in a nice part of our town, near the local nature park. It's so quiet and it smells like countryside, it just feels so nice and the perfect place to bring up our Son. The house was previously owned by an old couple and it needs a lot of work doing. It's a work in progress and an investment. We decided we would rather go for a house like this in a nice location rather than a house that needs no work doing but in a rough part of town. 

The house has no central heating, it needs rewiring, a new kitchen, a new bathroom, new doors, perhaps new windows and most rooms need redecorating. Sounds like a nightmare doesn't it? The previous owners have accepted our offer at £10,000 less than they originally wanted and houses on the same street generally sell for £40,000 or £50,000 more than we have paid! So if we spend money on the house and spruce it up hopefully further down the line we will of made money on our property and can move into something better. That's looking a long way down the line though as we are buying a house for a home but if we can make money on it then even better. 

We are meeting with our bank tomorrow and hopefully everything will be set into motion. The house needs to be surveyed but everything should go ok. I won't feel fully confident that the house is ours, not until we have the keys in our hands.

Wish us luck, we are going to need it! 

Review: Pampers Baby-Dry


Ever since Noah was born I have been on the hunt for the perfect nappy. I am obsessed with trying out as many nappy brands as possible and I am gradually turning into a nappy snob. You name it we have tried it and Pampers are a firm favourite in this household. Pampers were kind enough to send me a pack of their new Pampers Baby-Dry nappies for Noah to review. We hadn't tried this type before so we were looking forward to testing them out.

Pampers Baby-Dry sizes run from baby through to toddler but would be ideal for the younger baby. When Noah is more active I probably would switch to Pampers Active Fit and use the Baby-Dry for night time dryness.
 I found the nappies to be softer and lighter than other brands but this did not effect the absorbency level in the slightest. They easily last throughout the night without any leakage and with no funny smell. They fit like a dream and we had no issues with nappy rash. The elasticated waistband is soft and very stretchy which looked very comfy for Noah to wear. Noah will get red marks on his belly where the waistline has rubbed when using other brands but we haven't had this problem with any type of Pampers so far. 
Pampers are a bit more pricey than other brands but it's well worth paying that little bit extra especially when using Baby-Dry through the night. There are baby events on at the moment too at ASDA and Tesco where you can save money on multipacks of Pampers and there are dozens of money off vouchers online.  
We were extremely happy with the nappies and since reviewing our pack have stocked up as I feel fully confident putting my baby's bottom in Pampers Baby-Dry.

- I was sent a pack of Pampers Baby-Dry for the purpose of this review. However all opinions are my own. 

Mummy's boy



Noah you are 11 weeks old today. The past 11 weeks have been a whirlwind and it's incredible to see how much you have changed in just a short space of time. 

You are such a Mummy's boy already and literally stare at me all the time. A habit I am sure you have picked up from me because I cannot take my eyes off you either. You are the love of my life and I'm so so proud of you.

Only have eyes for Mummy


I hope some Mummies out there can help me out with this one. Noah has been a well socialised baby ever since the day he was born. We have numerous visitors on a weekly basis and we are always taking him out to visit family. Each time he is passed around like pass the parcel and he has always been very happy about it. There was a time when he was a newborn that taking him out to visit family was the only way he would nap during the day. He enjoyed being held and the constant chatting in the background must of soothed him. 

Noah is now 10 weeks old and for the past week or two when we have been visiting friends and family he has had hysterical crying episodes. One minute he will be led there babbling and smiling away at everyone and the next minute he is screaming the house down. When he first did it we were at Nick's parents and it was so sudden and such a horrendous cry that we mistook it for pain and actually took him to A&E. The following week he had these episodes on and off and I assumed he was having some belly ache or trapped wind so I cracked open a bottle of gripe water, gave cooled boiled water and tummy massages in hope that that would solve the issue. 

When he was at home during the week with me he would be fine. He wouldn't have one of these so called "episodes." That's when it all fell into place. He was only crying hysterically when we were at someone elses house and was being held by someone other than me. As soon as he was back in my arms he would instantly stop crying. It's proper crying too, his face goes bright red, tears streaming. He cries so hard that he gets out of breath and no sound comes out. It's so distressing to witness and hard to explain to the person that was holding him that he does it with everyone at the moment and he just wants to be back with me. 

It seems to me that this is separation anxiety or something similar? But at 10 weeks old isn't it a bit too early for this? To say he is such a socialised baby I'm a little surprised he is feeling this way. 

Is this just a stage he is going to get through?
Have you had any similar experiences?  
Or do you have any tips for me?

Letters to Noah: Father and Son

Some say that Father's don't have that instant love for their child when they are born, that the love develops over time. I don't agree with that sentiment at all. The minute you were born your Daddy was overcome with emotional. I could see it in his eyes that he had never ever loved anyone to that extent before. Your Daddy looked down at you with bewilderment, astonishment and adoration. It was plain for everyone to see and he couldn't take his eyes off you. I know that he will be the best Dad you could of ever hoped for. Everyday the love between you both grows and grows and my heart literally aches when I see the two of you together. It aches because there is simply nothing as beautiful. I love you both so much.






I love being a Mummy


Words cannot describe how much I love my boy and how much I am loving being a Mummy. It is tough at times but there is nothing more rewarding than caring for your little one and watching them bloom before your very eyes. When he was born I didn't think it was humanly possible to love anyone as much as I did in that moment in time. I was totally and utterly wrong because I love him more and more each day so much so I sometimes feel like my heart is going to burst. 

The past ten weeks have flown by in exhausted bliss and I wish I could hit the pause button as time is going by so fast. Noah is already so much bigger and has changed so much in such a short amount of time, it is crazy. I am totally soaking in every single moment I have with him as these days are flying by so quickly.

I am insanely proud of my son, like every parent is. He is the best thing that has ever happened to me.