Families And Finances - How To Put Money Aside For Emergencies



If you are a parent with children, you’ll know already about those extra costs we all have to shell out for. Whether it be new school shoes, presents on birthdays and at Christmas, days out at weekends and school holidays. It all adds up, and if you are living to your budget, it can be hard to put money aside for emergencies. Not having an emergency fund in place could lead to trouble and worry. For example, you could be faced with an unexpected bill, the breadwinner in your household could be made redundant, or your appliances could break down leaving you with no fridge or washing machine. If you are on a tight budget but want to save some money for emergencies, then this guide gives you some tips.

Understand your Finances
To be able to set some money aside each month, you have to know exactly where your money is coming from, and where it is going. Take a sheet of paper and list all of your expenses for a month, including how much you spend on sundries like buying a newspaper. If you pay yearly for some expenses, such as insurance or council tax, take the yearly cost and divide it by twelve. Add the result to your monthly expenses. That way you know exactly what your monthly costs are, without having any surprises. Once you know what your monthly expenses are, it will give you an idea of how much money you have left over to put into your savings account.

Use a High-Interest Account
Rather than using a current account to save money, use a high-interest savings account. Some banks offer deals for choosing to save with them, so do some research to get the best rates and the best offers for your account. It is important to remember that you might need instant access to your savings, so, for example, a 10-year ISA might not be appropriate. Look for instant access, with a good interest rate. If you want to save regularly, the set up a direct debit for a set amount to go from your current account to your savings. This saves you from having to remember to move money between accounts, saves you time, and you are less likely to skip a month so will see your savings grow quickly.

Re-Evaluate Your Budget
If you find that there is no money left at the end of the month to save, you need to look at your budget to see where you can cut costs. For example, you could try swapping to cheaper brands to save money on your shopping bill. Often, good savings can be made this way without any compromise of quality. If you have a habit of eating out once a week, why not change it to once per fortnight and put the difference aside? If your car consumes a lot of fuel or falls into a higher tax bracket, consider selling it and buying one with a smaller engine to save you money. Once you begin to look into your budget more closely, you will see lots of areas where you can save.

Save Your Change
Every time you use cash to buy something, save your loose change in a jar. It is surprising how quickly it can add up! As well as acting as a mini emergency kitty for your household, every once in a while, you can bag it and take it to the bank.

Earn More Money
If you are a full-time parent or a full-time worker, there are ways that you can earn a little extra money that you could put aside. You might look into jobs that you can do from home during your free time, such as when the kids are asleep or during school hours. There are all sorts of online jobs available, and this fits in well with a family lifestyle as the hours are often flexible. Examples of online jobs include freelancing, where you offer your expertise for a fee, paid surveys, or online customer service agents. Once you have a little extra income, it becomes much easier to build your savings.

Sell Unwanted or Unused Items
That DVD player that’s been in the back of your cupboard for six months, the CD’s you haven’t played for years, or the waffle maker that was given to you but hasn’t been used because you don’t like waffles… you get the idea. All those items that take up space in your cupboards could be just what another person is looking for. Take photos of them and list them on auction websites, or use local listing son social media. Selling items can be a quick way of raising cash, and a way to see your savings grow.

Loans
It can take a while for your savings to add up, so if you are in need of emergency cash, you might consider taking out a small loan. A loan can be a quick solution to get you out of a fix. However, it is unwise to take out more than you need. You should also shop around for the best rates, and only take a loan out if you know that you will be able to pay it back. But how do you get a loan if you have a poor credit history? Well, there are loans available that are offered without performing a credit check, such as from this website.

When we are living day to day, having emergency savings put by is not always the first thing on our minds. But it is better to be prepared than to be left feeling worried when faced with emergency costs. It is never too late to begin saving, so if you haven’t done so before, start now. Once you get into the habit of saving money and have reached the first savings goal you set for yourself, it is a satisfying feeling. It also gives you peace of mind to know that you can cover costs should you need to.

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Ava - 17 Months Old




Can you believe that it's been three months since I last wrote an update on Ava? This wasn't planned, every week I'd have the post on my to-do list but something would crop up and I just didn't have the time. I expect this post to be huge, it's been three months after all, and well it may as well have been a year because she's changed so much! I'm so glad to have this time now, to type everything up and have it to look back on. 


Character
Ava is truly one of a kind and people always comment that "she's been here before!" Which never fails to freak me out! First of all, she's so funny! She lives to make you smile and laugh, or just to get a reaction whether it be a good one of a bad. She's very independent, which has been a learning curve for me as Noah was totally the opposite. I find myself having to take a step back with her and let her get on with things because she gets frustrated if she's not able to do things herself. This, of course, means that she picks up new skills really quickly because she likes to practice and has so much patience. She's very intelligent and quick to learn. She's also extremely affectionate and often gives kisses and cuddles without prompting. If I was to describe her in five words they would be; independent, intelligent, intuitive, funny and affectionate.

Speech
She often speaks 'gobbledygook' but is doing really well with her words too. She tries to learn new words every day and here are some that she already knows; 
hiya, ta, hi, Mam, Mama, Mummy, Dada, Daddy, Nanna, Grandad, cat, hat, cheese, shoes, car, ta ta's, choc choc, tea, that, wee wee, poo poo, baby, dip dip. I've brought out the same flash cards that I introduced when Noah was 17 months old to try and teach her new words. I'm also encouraging her to join two words such as "Hiya Mama!"


Size
I've not weighed her for a while but she is a stocky little thing, although she's lost a lot of her lovely puppy fat since she's started running everywhere. She wears 12-18 month clothing but I don't think it'll be long until she's moving into the next size. She wears a size 5 nappy and her feet are size 4.5.


Health
Over the past couple of months, she's been cutting lots of teeth at the same time but she has been handling it quite well. She has a whopping 14 teeth, with 2 others just cutting through. So she's on the brink of having 16! Almost a full set. On a whole, she's not poorly very often but she had her first tummy bug a few weeks ago. Thankfully it was only a 24 hour kind of thing.


Feeding

Our breastfeeding journey came to an end 14 months as slowly she weaned herself. I remember the last time I fed her so clearly. She'd actually not nursed for an entire week, she was feeling poorly and I ended up feeding her. I was surprised there was any milk left but there was and it was lovely to be able to nurse her when she was unwell. I think it was a lovely end to our breastfeeding story. I have to admit that I really miss breastfeeding but I treasure every moment of our journey together. It was such a special time. 

Ava now drinks cows milk and usually has a 12oz bottle in the morning, a 7oz bottle before her nap and another 12oz before she goes to bed. She also drinks a flask of water every day. When it comes to food, she tries everything and anything and has the regular three meals a day, with desserts and snacks in between. Her favourite food at the moment, believe it or not, is gherkins! We go through a large jar a week between her and her Daddy! Gherkins aside she also loves; cheese, ham, chicken, all fruits and veg, yoghurt, shreddies and chocolate! Like Noah, she isn't overly fond of bread or toast.

Sleep
Ava now sleeps through, hurray and has done for a month or so. She has a bottle at night, a cuddle and then usually goes straight to sleep. She can sometimes stir for her dummy during the night, but other than that it's bliss. Although I must mention, she doesn't sleep in her own cot, she's still in our bed. Thankfully we have a huge super king bed so we've all got plenty of space to stretch out yet at arms reach when she wants a cuddle. She usually naps for two hours in the afternoon in her pram. She'll actually climb into it herself, with her dummy waiting for her bottle. So basically, she sleeps fantastic, just not in her cot!



Milestones & new tricks
* She's been able to walk and run for months, but now she can jump and boy can she climb. She loves to climb, it's her favourite thing to do and she has no fear whatsoever!
* She likes to feed herself with a fork or spoon and usually protests if you try to help her.

* She can say over 20 words which I've listed in the post earlier.
* She understands pretty much anything you say to her. If you ask her to go and get her shoes, she'll fetch them and try to put them on. She can do it, but they usually go on the wrong foot. If you ask if she wants to go for a walk she will go and get her coat and shoes.
* Leading on from that, she loves to try to dress herself. She can put on her socks and likes to try to put on other peoples shoes. I often find her walking into the room with my shoes on or with Noah's shorts on her head.
* She loves taking care of her dolls and is a proper little Mummy. She will cuddle and carry them around. Feed them with a bottle, lay them down to go to sleep and put a little blanket on them.
* She now lets us know when she's doing a wee or a poo in her nappy and will hide when she's doing a number two. I recently won a potty from Oxo Tot so I think in the next few weeks we will introduce her to it.



Likes and dislikes

Her family and the cat. Exploring, climbing, running and jumping! Getting up to mischief. Playing make believe, peekaboo, dancing and reading books. All animals, cats in particular. Her dolls and looking after them. Playing with Noah and all his toys. Dressing and feeding herself. Cuddles in bed. Making a mess! Peppa Pig, Daniel Tiger, Llama Llama and In The Night Garden. Rock music and listening to Daddy on guitar. Copying whatever Noah does. Going for walks and trips to the park. Gherkins! Music and nursery rhymes. She doesn't like bugs or having her teeth brushed.






L.O.L Surprise Biggie Pets Dollmatian - Review



Noah has been a fan of collectables for as long as I can remember, he loves them and has so many different collections on the go! Being the animal lover that he is, the L.O.L Pet's range has always appealed to him and he's always telling people that "they aren't just for girls you know!" Which I think is very true, toys are toys! With this in mind, he was overjoyed when one of the new L.O.L Surprise Biggie Pets arrived for him to review! 


There are currently 43 L.O.L Biggie Pets to collect; a hamster, a rabbit, a cat and a dog. We received the dog version for the purpose of this review, the Dollmatian as it's lovingly named. Before we opened the huge L.O.L ball we noticed that in the box were a couple of wear and share accessories, a pair of funky glasses and a couple of bracelets too. The glasses are spy glasses and can be used to find codes that unlock certain surprises.

It was then time to open up the huge L.O.L ball and we were so excited! I think Noah and I both squealed in delight when we opened it up! Dollmatian is utterly adorable and they don't call them 'Biggie Pets' for nothing, big but just the right size for a cuddle. Dollmatian is great for play, but can also be worn as a rucksack and can be used as a piggy bank too.


You can always count on surprises with L.O.L and the same can be said for Biggie Pets! There are over 15 different surprises inside and we started with the half a dozen blind bags that were hidden inside Dollmation. There was a lot to discover inside them, poop a scoops, a wishbone, a fortune spinner, accessories for the pets to wear and so much more. 

Once we'd opened up the blind bags it was time for the ultimate surprise because each Biggie Pet comes with either 2 or 3 babies. The babies are hidden inside little boxes, surrounded by kinetic sand. We were amazed to find 3 baby surprises and wondered who we'd find.


Noah thought it was great digging the pets out of the sand, however, it did take him some time. This could be a good or bad thing, depending on the child. This activity is a great way to keep them busy, but if they are the impatient kind then I think they'd get a little fed up and would need your help. Thankfully, Noah really enjoyed it and was amazed to discover two kittens and a puppy. The babies are so cute and it's so much fun to dress them in the little accessories from the blind bags. I think Noah has the L.O.L Pets bug now because he's asked to collect them all. 


There are three L.O.L Biggie Pets to collect and they are suitable for 3 years and onwards due to the small bits and pieces. They retail at £36.99 each and are available to buy now, in most toy stores and online.
- We were sent this product for the purpose of this review, however, all opinions are my own.

Living Arrows #5 - Growing Our First Sunflower



I've always wanted to grow a sunflower, ever since I was a little girl but we never got around to doing it. This year I decided it was time to give it a whirl with my own children and I was so excited! We planted our sunflower seed, in damp soil into a tiny little pot. We watered it often and placed on the window sill, making sure it got plenty of sunlight. We were amazed when it started to sprout within a couple of days.

After a couple of weeks, we replanted the sprout into a bigger pot and placed it outside in the sun. It's been growing, slowly but surely since May and has required watering multiple times a day. Sometimes I've had to take it inside, to the kitchen as its leaves tend to go droopy because of the heat we've been having lately. Thankfully, after a quick cool down, it would go back to normal again.

Our sunflower finally bloomed this week and it's done nothing but make us smile ever since. The kids have loved watching it grow every day and Noah has loved the responsibility of having his own sunflower to take care of. I had to take some photo's of the children with it this weekend as they are both so proud of their "sunflower friend" as Noah calls it. We'll definitely be planting sunflowers every year now, it's been so rewarding watching it grow. Maybe we'll plant a couple next time!


Living Arrows

Our Summer Favourites


Year upon year, us Brits complain about the weather. Well, I think all that whinging has finally paid off because what a summer we've had so far! I can't remember a summer like this, we've had pretty much three months of none stop sunshine. I've loved every minute of it, even when the temperatures broke into the 30's! With this in mind, I thought I'd put together a post all about our summer favourites and the things which we've been loving lately.

Boys Trilby - various prices
I decided to start the post with three favourite pieces of clothing, one from Noah, one from Ava and one from myself. Noah is such a fan of sun hats and this year he wanted a straw trilby, just like his older cousins. It's such a versatile piece as it goes with so many different of his outfits, making him looks stylish whilst protecting his face from the sun too.

Patent Leather Pumps - from £450.00
Now, these beauties from Jimmy Choo have been on my wishlist for years, the only thing is I think I want them in every colour! Luisaviaroma has so many different shoes for women, in all styles and sizes, from so many different high-end brands. I can easily spend hours browsing through the website, planning the shoes I want to buy next!

Bergia Girl Dress - £78.00
I had to list this stunning dress which we were recently gifted, we are in love with it. It's from La Coqueta, a website which stocks beautiful Spanish clothing for babies and children. I was invited to browse through the girls dresses section and fell head over heels in love with the Bergia dress because it's just perfect. From the styling to the colour, to the cut. It's a dress that can be worn from season to season and I hope that Ava gets lots of wear out of it!

The Body Shop All In One BB Cream - £12.00
I don't know about you but the last thing I want to do when it's hot outside is to wear makeup. I don't really like wearing it at the best of times, never mind when it's that hot that it's sweats off in minutes. Enriched with 24hr hydration it's a hardworking, multi-tasking cream that leaves your skin gloriously glowing and almost picture perfect. It blends into your complexion for a colour adapting, dewy, even-finish that perfectly matches your skin tone. I've been going through so much of the all in one BB Cream from The Body Shop that I just had to mention it in this post.

Ion8 Quench 1000ml Water Bottle - £16.99
I'm always trying to up my water intake and this water bottle from Ion8 has really encouraged me to do so. It's great for everyday use, at the gym or for outdoor fitness. The 1000ml capacity will see you through an intense workout or gruelling bike ride. It's totally leak proof and can be used in a dishwasher too.
Milton Antibacterial Products - from £1.39
Antibacterial cleaning products are an essential no matter the time of year but they are a parent's best friend during the summer holidays! Milton's fast and effective germ-killing action in a ready to use spray gun format for use all around the kitchen, nursery and home. Clinically proven to kill a wide range of bacteria and fungi, including E Coli 157, Listeria, Salmonella, Campylobacter, Shigella and Candida Albicans.
- This is a PR Collaboration.